The Quran's dua for a spouse asks Allah for a husband or wife who is qurrata a'yun, a joy to the eyes. Allah also says He placed love and mercy between spouses (30:21), so ask Him for both. Below are the sourced duas for your spouse, and a plain word about the many "love duas" online that have no source.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَٰجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍۢ وَٱجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Rabbanā hab lanā min azwājinā wa dhurriyyātinā qurrata aʿyuniw-wajʿalnā lil-muttaqīna imāmā
Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.
Quran 25:74, translation by Sahih International
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ
Allāhumma innī asʾaluka khayrahā wa khayra mā jabaltahā ʿalayh, wa aʿūdhu bika min sharrihā wa min sharri mā jabaltahā ʿalayh
O Allah, I ask You for her good and the good of the nature You gave her, and I seek refuge in You from her harm and the harm of the nature You gave her. (Said by the husband on marrying, with his hand on her forehead, praying for blessing.)
Sunan Abi Dawud 2160, graded hasan
بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ
Bārakallāhu lak, wa bāraka ʿalayk, wa jamaʿa baynakumā fī khayr
May Allah bless you, send His blessings upon you, and bring you both together in goodness.
Sunan Abi Dawud 2130, graded sahih
وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةًۭ وَرَحْمَةً
Wa jaʿala baynakum mawaddataw-wa raḥmah
And He placed between you affection and mercy.
Quran 30:21, translation by Sahih International
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Guide
The Quran's dua for a spouse asks Allah for a husband or wife who is qurrata a'yun, a joy to the eyes. Allah also says He placed love and mercy between spouses (30:21), so ask Him for both. Below are the sourced duas for your spouse, and a plain word about the many "love duas" online that have no source.
Use Dua 1 often, in sujood and after salah, and add your own words in any language: for their health, their iman, their work and for peace between you. A dua for someone in their absence has a special promise. The Prophet ﷺ said an angel stands by the one who prays for his brother in his absence and says: "Ameen, and for you the same."1 That includes your spouse.
Allah says: "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy" (30:21).2 Affection and mercy are gifts from Allah, so ask Him for them by name. Then act on them. The Prophet ﷺ said: "The best of you is the best to his family, and I am the best of you to my family."3
Many sites promise a "dua to make my husband love me" or to make a particular person marry you, often with a set number of repetitions or a wazifa. These have no source in the Quran or the hadith. Some are love charms, which the Prophet ﷺ warned against: he said that spells, amulets and love charms (tiwalah) are shirk.4 Ask Allah directly, in your own words, and use the duas above.
If you are hoping to marry, see the dua for marriage and the istikhara dua. To congratulate a couple, see the dua for newlyweds.
Questions
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yun waj'alna lil-muttaqina imama (Quran 25:74).
Ask Allah for the mawaddah and rahmah He mentions in Quran 30:21, in your own words, and use Quran 25:74. There is no special wording in the hadith for this.
No dua with that wording is in the Quran or hadith. Pray for your husband and your marriage in your own words, and avoid wazifas and charms that have no source.
Yes. Outside the prayer you can make dua in any language. Inside the prayer, Hanafi scholars say to keep to Arabic.