Questions Marriage and family

Can a Muslim marry someone who is not a virgin?

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Short answer

Yes. Marrying a divorced or widowed woman, or a man who was married before, is fully halal, and most of the Prophet's ﷺ wives had been married before. Marrying someone who once committed zina is also valid in the Hanafi school, especially after they have repented. Virginity is not a condition of nikah.

Hanafi position

Nikah with a previously married person is permissible without any dislike. Nikah with someone who has committed zina is valid, though choosing a chaste and religious spouse is better, and past sins that were repented from should not be raised. If the woman is pregnant from zina, special rules apply.

Other madhhabs
Hanbali
Marriage to a woman known to have committed zina is not valid until she repents and it is clear she is not pregnant.

Explanation

Islam attaches no shame to a previously married woman. Khadijah had been married before she married the Prophet ﷺ, and so had Sawdah, Umm Salamah and others among his wives. Jabir married a previously married woman so that she could care for his young sisters. The Prophet asked him, gently teasing, why he had not married a young girl, then approved his reason.

Virginity is not a condition. A nikah does not depend on it, and bleeding on the first night is not a test of it in fiqh. Many women do not bleed, and a lost hymen has many causes. Asking a future spouse to confess their past is not sunnah. Allah conceals sins, and a person who has repented should keep their past covered. See repenting from zina.

Someone who committed zina. The ayah "the fornicator does not marry except a fornicator" (24:3) is read by the Hanafis and most scholars as a censure, not a condition of validity, so the nikah is valid. The Hanbalis require repentance first. If a woman is pregnant from zina, the man who caused the pregnancy may marry her; if someone else marries her, the Hanafis hold the nikah valid but he must not be intimate with her until she gives birth. Ask a mufti in that case.

What matters most is a person's religion and character now. The sunnah is to "win the one with religion". See conditions of a valid nikah.

The evidence

Quran, Surah An-Noor 24:3

ٱلزَّانِى لَا يَنكِحُ إِلَّا زَانِيَةً أَوْ مُشْرِكَةًۭ وَٱلزَّانِيَةُ لَا يَنكِحُهَآ إِلَّا زَانٍ أَوْ مُشْرِكٌۭ ۚ وَحُرِّمَ ذَٰلِكَ عَلَى ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ﴿٣﴾

The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers.

Read by most scholars as a censure of persisting in zina, not a bar to marrying someone who repented.

Quran 24:3, translation by Sahih International

Sahih al-Bukhari 5367

Sahih

... فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك ...

"Why not a young woman, so you could play with her and she with you?"

Jabir had married a previously married woman, and the Prophet approved his choice.

Sahih al-Bukhari 5367 · Sahih · Read on sunnah.com

Sahih al-Bukhari 5090

Sahih

... تنكح المرأة لأربع لمالها ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها فاظفر بذات الدين ...

"A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family, her beauty and her religion. Win the one with religion."

Religion, not past status, is the main measure.

Sahih al-Bukhari 5090 · Sahih · Read on sunnah.com

Where the ruling is recorded

  • al-Hidaya, Kitab al-Nikah, Fasl fi Bayan al-Muharramat. Marriage to a woman pregnant from zina is valid according to Abu Hanifa and Muhammad, without intimacy until she gives birth.
  • al-Mughni (Ibn Qudama), Kitab al-Nikah. The Hanbali condition of repentance and freedom from pregnancy.

Checked by our team. For a more accurate answer to your own situation, consult a scholar. Quran translation by Sahih International. Hadith Arabic from the standard editions of the six books and the Muwatta, with gradings as recorded there; the English is our own rendering. Spotted a mistake? Tell us.